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Dating App Scientist Number 1 Dating Tip #shorts

2023-01-18 · Short · Ali, Logan Ury · recording, 0:59 · watch on YouTube

Topic: Relationships and personal life · mode: Conversation and interview

In a clip from a full episode with Ali, dating-app scientist Logan Ury says a date starts hours before, in the mindset you bring, so take time to transition from work; and that dates should be fun shared experiences rather than job interviews about studies, siblings and five-year plans.

What is said

The parts of the video and what is said in each (★ — how much it matters to the video).

00:00:00 — Logan Ury on what makes a good or bad date: mindset beforehand and fun over interviews

  • ★★★ Logan Ury says a date starts hours before, when you get into the mindset: coming straight from a hard day at work you bring a stressed part of yourself, so proactively take time between work and the date to get into the right mindset. — 00:00:00

    “whether you think the date will go poorly or you think the date will go well, you're right.”

  • ★★ Logan Ury says many dates are like job interviews, with questions about what you studied, how many siblings you have and your five-year plan, which are dry, boring and do not affect whether two people can be in a relationship. — 00:00:29 · first in: 2022-10-17, 8 Evidence-Based Tips that Helped Me Find Love

  • ★★★ Logan Ury advises designing a date with a lot of fun and playfulness, doing something together, so that even without a connection you had a fun experience and the pressure is off. — 00:00:29

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  • refine · How do you find a partner? — Logan Ury says a date starts hours before, when you get into the mindset: coming straight from a hard day at work you bring a stressed part of yourself, so proactively take time between work and the date to get into the right mindset. (00:00:00)

Mentioned

Central: Logan Ury

Also centred on Logan Ury: This Book Changed my Love Life · 8 Evidence-Based Tips that Helped Me Find Love · 6 Lessons I've Learned About Online Dating

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