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What Kind of Dater Are You? 💘

2023-08-20 · Short · Ali · recording, 0:49 · watch on YouTube

Topic: Relationships and personal life · mode: List of tips or lessons · tags: Lesson from a book

In a Short, Ali describes the three types of dater from Logan Ury's How to Not Die Alone, the romanticizer, the maximizer and the hesitator, and points to his video on the book.

What is said

The parts of the video and what is said in each (★ — how much it matters to the video).

00:00:00 — The romanticizer, the maximizer and the hesitator, from How to Not Die Alone

  • ★★ Of the dater types in Logan Ury's How to Not Die Alone, Ali says the romanticizer idolises love and fantasy over the real partner, while the maximizer seeks the perfect partner, faces the paradox of choice and may struggle to commit. — 00:00:00
  • ★★ The third type of dater in Logan Ury's How to Not Die Alone, Ali says, is the hesitator, who approaches dating cautiously, builds emotional walls and fears vulnerability; past disappointment may have made them afraid of emotional risks, so they may miss out on meaningful connections. — 00:00:00

Mentioned

Central: three dating tendencies

Also: How to Not Die Alone · Logan Ury · paradox of choice

Also centred on three dating tendencies: This Book Changed my Love Life

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