How do you win over someone who dislikes you?

Ways to ease tension with or win over someone who dislikes you (asking a favour, kindness, conversation).

Axis: ask them for a small favour ... win them over by doing favours for them

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date	who	answer	source
2023-05-09	Ali	Ali advises using the Ben Franklin effect: when there is tension with someone, ask them for a small favour, such as borrowing a pen or a book or asking for advice, which might transform the relationship.	The Ben Franklin Effect 👴🏻 00:00:29